Wedding Etiquette – Who Pays for What
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- 1 Wedding Etiquette – Who Pays for What
- 1.1 Bride pays for:
- 1.2 Groom pays for:
- 1.3 Bride’s family pays for:
- 1.4 Groom’s family pays for:
- 1.5 Matron of Honor pays for:
- 1.6 Maid of Honor pays for:
- 1.7 Bridesmaids pay for:
- 1.8 Best Man pays for:
- 1.9 Groomsmen pay for:
- 1.10 Ushers pay for:
- 1.11 Children’s Parents pay for:
- 1.12 Out-of-town attendants or family members pay for:
- 1.13 Guests, Attendants, and Family Members pay for:
Wedding bills etiquette is an important part of wedding etiquette. Following the right etiquette at a wedding can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to money. You don’t want to offend anyone, yet you want to be perfectly appropriate with everybody. Here are some guidelines to follow:
Bride pays for:
- Wedding ring for the groom
- Wedding gift for the groom
- Bridesmaids gifts
- Medical visit for the bride
- Bridesmaids luncheon
- Accommodations for out-of-town guests (groom can join the bride on this one)
Groom pays for:
- Wedding ring for the bride
- Wedding gift for the bride
- Groomsmen/Usher gifts
- Bride’s bouquet
- Mothers’ corsages
- Groom’s boutonnière
- Groomsmen boutonnières
- Usher’s boutonnière
- Marriage license
- Medical visit for the groom
- Clergyman/Officiant’s fee
- Gloves/Ties/Ascots for attendants
- Limousine service
- Honeymoon arrangements
Bride’s family pays for:
- Wedding gown, headpiece, and accessories
- Bridesmaids’ bouquets
- Grandmothers’ corsages
- Ceremony/Reception flowers
- Altar baskets/Arches
- Canopy/Carpet
- Kneeling bench/Candelabrums
- Rented items for wedding
- Rented items for the reception
- Invitations/Announcements
- Wedding programs
- Napkins/Matches/Printed items
- Church’s Fee
- Musician/Soloist
- Church’s Janitor
- Reception Hall fee
- Catered Reception/Professional Services
- Wedding photography
- Wedding video
- Orchestra/Band/DJ
- Wedding cake
- Wedding favors
- Rice bags
- Wedding breakfast
- Bridal brunch
- Father of the bride formal wear
Groom’s family pays for:
- Groom’s cake
- Rehearsal dinner
- Father of the groom formal wear
Matron of Honor pays for:
- Matron of Honor’s gown
Maid of Honor pays for:
- Maid of Honor’s gown
Bridesmaids pay for:
- Bridesmaids’ gowns
Best Man pays for:
- Bachelor party (other groom’s attendants can join the Best Man to pay the bill)
- Best Man’s formal wear
Groomsmen pay for:
- Groomsmen’s formal wear
Ushers pay for:
- Ushers’ formal wear
Children’s Parents pay for:
- Children’s formal wear
Out-of-town attendants or family members pay for:
- Travel expenses to the wedding
Guests, Attendants, and Family Members pay for:
- Gifts for the couple
Of course, this is only a wedding bill etiquette guide for traditional weddings. You can arrange expenses differently by having an open conversation with all the parties involved.
However, if you and your future spouse design your own wedding and decide to pay for it so everything goes according to your plans and desires, by all means! More and more couples are doing it that way, avoiding their families and friends a financial burden they might not have had contemplated in their budgets.